NEVER A BRIDESMAID (or Best Man)!
Friendships can be tricky. On one hand you are supposed be there for your friends no matter what. On the OTHER hand, you are also required to tell them the truth -- even if the truth will hurt ... and even if that truth can ruin the friendship.
Such is the problem in my wedding experiences... I have never been asked to be a "Best Man" for any of my friends. Is that bad, or am I fortunate?
Don't misunderstand me, I've been asked to be a "groomsman" in several weddings, and have been asked to be the singer in several more, all for the men I feel are my closest friends... but not once asked to stand in the most honorable, speech-giving, second in command post of being The Best Man; never!
Am I supposed to feel insulted, have I been slighted, am I not as close as I thought to these guys, or have I dodged the big bullet and been given a pass to simply observe and enjoy the marital events that I've been involved in?
Just Asking ... Would YOU be insulted or relieved?...
Join us tomorrow and let's get it settled!!!